Hen party

[jugglingmonkey]

WIBU to ask to pay less for a friends hen party? I'm pregnant and not drinking... I know the price includes some booze.

Am I being tight?

Yes. Cost is split each way. If you want to go I'd just pay.

No I don't think you would be at all.

If you can't drink,you can't drink so why should you pay for alcohol you won't be having.

I'd be surprised that the person that's organizing or the bride would expect you to pay towards it if they know your pregnant so won't be drinking.

If it is a tenner, I'd just pay. If its another £50, I'd say something.

I understand where you're coming from, but, some establishments charge as much for soft drinks as alcoholic ones. Just my tuppence worth OP

It depends on the venue and the format of the party. If it's a place where you pay for a ticket that includes some alcoholic drinks if you want them then YWBU. If it's a party in a chalet or something and they are going to have to spend less on alcohol because you're not drinking, then YANBU to ask.

I would also say depends on how skint you are and how close you are to the bride.

But if you're worried about money, maybe have a very quiet word with the bride and say how much you want to be there, but how it's causing you stress and worry.