I had been shopping earlier today for DH as myself and DD (2) are going away at the weekend with some friends as a belated birthday treat.
I came back from shopping, got DD out of the car and started unloading from the boot, at this point DHs niece walked out of MILs house stomped to her car and drove off (we don't get on and we live next door to MIL). I guessed that DH was probably at MILs having a cup of tea and in the usual fashion, didn't bother to come out to help me with bags.
Anyway my hands were absolutely full with shopping bags, I had hold of DDs hand and tight I had her pulled back but as I shut the boot down she was just there, I feel terrible but I feelissed off also that DH didn't bother to come out and help me.
I blew up at him and just said yet again you've watched me struggle on and his defence was that he didn't see me come into the yard, I find this hard to believe as he has a clear view of the yard from where he sits and the fact that his niece walked out the minute after I got there and the fact that I was due back anyway told me differently.
He won't talk to me now and has disappeared out of the house, I've calmed down and I feel bad for blowing up at him but I'm so upset that I always have to struggle on with everything! It's a culmination of things. Obviously it wasn't his fault that I closed the lid on her head but if he'd come out to help me it probably wouldn't have happened.
She's been down to A&E checked her over and thank goodness, she's fipme but I still feel so bad and even worse now that he won't speak to me.