to be googling old bfs?

[spababe]

Very happy with DH but curious about long lost bfs and where they are now and what they are doing - AIBU?

I don't,but I have had ex's looking me up.One ex his sister messaged me after her brother had told her I was on FB,he was a real arse and my DH was not pleased.I've had to block them all to get them to leave me alone.

One of mine is very successful and lives abroad but no idea if he is happy personally. He seemed rather flaky in that way but then again we were young.
One is a headmaster - totally expected that. Again, don't know about private life.
One lives locally and happily married by the looks of things which is nice.
One I have lost touch with.
It's interesting though especially to see what they look like with age. Of course, I haven't changed a bit!

I google mine

Ones an artist (really shit)
Ones a model
Ones a drug addict
The last one is still writings passive aggressive posts about me and it's been 6 years since we separated.

I've done it and it confirms my life choices nicely.

one's a fairly well known musician and record producer (but not you know that well known)

one's a wine dealer

one died in a tragic accident just after getting married very very …. but I did know that pre-google

the significant 20s relationship one is just a bigger fatter grumpier version of the himself

the last one I am still mates with so no google required

I googled mine but they all have common names and don't seem to be on social media. Nothing wrong with it for a bit of fun provided you don't get too into it.

Gosh, I have way too many to list them.

Met an ex for a cup of tea last week, to ask him some work related questions, and he told me he'd been to the wedding of another of my exes recently - so I did a bit of fb stalking to see the wedding pics. Neither of these exes are on fb but I found the wedding photos via another ex colleague's fb page

I have often wondered how many exes I could collect in the same place at any time. So far there's been three in one ski resort at once!