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To be getting really f'd off with the neighbours

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besttalk · 22/06/2015 13:43

I don't talk to my neighbours much (the ones next door) apart from the odd hello. They are pretty quite and never had an issue.

The issue is with other neighbours that live down the road - 5-6 families to be exact.

First issue is the constant shouting and arguing, they seem to be completely incapable of talking to their kids unless it involves screaming and shouting. One in particular is very nasty, calling her daughter a lazy fat bitch just because she asked her mom for a drink.

It the constant "get eeerrr nooooooooooow" "stoooooopppp iiiiittt" that really annoys me. And its always always shouting, out in the street, in their gardens, windows open so everyone can hear grrr.

Then there is the weekly delight of the one neighbour and her partner arguing very publicy. Slamming of doors, screaming in the garden, climbing over fences to shout at each other, one going off in the car in a strop to come back 5 mins later just to shout at each other again. One occasion the man was walking around the street in his boxers effing and jeffing.

Then there was a few months back where the one neighbour and her delightful partner got so intoxicated they started beating each other up (with three young children in the house) the police came and he started attacking the police! In the end there were 2 vans and 3 polics cars for this one idiot.

Now we have the constant rubbish problem . they seen incapable of putting rubbish in their wheelie bin correctly or they just throw it out their window! The rubbish blows down the road and ends up on my drive! Last week there was a food packet with poo in it, poo!!! I had to clear it up!

Also they constantly put things in their bins that won't be collected, so instead of sorting it out they just nab someone else's, mine has been stolen today, while I was in the garden (it was still out after collection) cheeky fuckers.

I really cannot stand them. Humph!

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UglyBugaz · 22/06/2015 23:23

I know I'm not helping by saying move but I had inconsiderate neighbours before when I lived on an estate, they used to leave their rubbish outside the bin shed because they couldn't be bothered to bring down the key and hope someone else will put their rubbish into the bins, at night the foxes got to the bins and morning the entrance/exit was surrounded by flies and food. They also used to play music to 3-4am and some kids used to hand around inside the building. I moved when I heard two girls go raped in the car park, last straw.
It was a new estate built 2010 but inconsiderate tramps completely trashed it.

MrsEmmaPeel · 22/06/2015 23:41

Oh best what a nightmare. You've got drug dealers too. I'd make an anonymous tip-off to the Police about that.

You see that is why me and DP live in a house down a country lane where there are no neighbours.

We are lucky to able to afford that at our age (early-30s) I realise. But is sad that nowadays, even in leafy suburbia, not just media stereotype housing estates you get all kinds of ratbags living next to, or very near to you.

Yes it is remote, but having lived on a farm in NZ as a child, I don't mind that.
At least the only noises you hear are from animals and not fuckwits who drive nice people round the twist with their anti-social behaviour.

Fatmomma99 · 22/06/2015 23:49

Record, record, record - write down every incident: What it was, date and time.

Report, report, report - be a pita. To both HA and local council (send emails to both)

Look for on-line and other surveys about the HA and fill in complaining about the tenants, mention you report and what they do about it. They'll have to report this, and potential tenants will see it. That should help.

It wont' be quick, but it will get results.

Good luck!

besttalk · 23/06/2015 08:04

It's sad as its quite a nice area, on the edge of the city going out to the country so it feels quite rural.

I've reported the drug issue and I've reported incidences to the HA, they never respond though : (

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