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To think it's inappropriate to use this term?

44 replies

Welshmaenad · 21/06/2015 20:18

I picked up a pack of Bleach London bleaching kit and a couple of cream dyes in Boots today.

Was just looking at the back of the bleaching kit pack and it says it's for " blondorexics and casual bleach dabblers".

AIBU to think that's a really inappropriate bastardisation of anorexics, in this context? It's such a serious disease, I don't claim to be any kind of expert on the terminology but it seems very 'pro ana' and disrespectful of sufferers.

If IANBU how should I word my complaint to the company?

OP posts:
maxxytoe · 21/06/2015 21:14

for god sake , calm down

Klayden · 21/06/2015 21:16

Can you not dislike something while being perfectly calm? Wink

AuntyMag10 · 21/06/2015 21:18

I never would have thought anorexic. Seriously calm down and don't overanalyze it.

MistressMerryWeather · 21/06/2015 21:19

Klayden. :o

Nope, you must get terribly over excited.

icelollycraving · 21/06/2015 21:25

It wouldn't occur to me for this to be offensive. It's just a bit of nonsense.

McT123 · 21/06/2015 21:30

I have laryngitis which means that my larynx is inflamed - every time I see or hear people using the suffix "itis" incorrectly E.g. "i Have Mondayitis" to mean that they don't like Mondays, it is a real trigger for me.

AliceScarlett · 21/06/2015 21:34

I don't see what is "pro-ana" about it? Confused

RepeatAdNauseum · 21/06/2015 21:37

Kennington was right with:

"It's greek
The suffix orexia means appetite for

An means without
Hence anorexic means without appetite
I think linguists will be along in a minute and be more precise".

That's how they made the word. It does make linguistic sense.

Sparklingbrook · 21/06/2015 21:38

Overthinking IMO.

littlejohnnydory · 21/06/2015 21:43

YANBU, it's bad and the term "anorexia" has been bastardised a lot - tanorexic, pregorexic, etc etc. It trivialises the illness and especially when related to appearance - the hair lightener and tanning products, etc.

The difference is, McT (thanks for that piece of brillaint satire) is that laryngitis is not widely misunderstood, stigmatised, trivialised and underdiagnosed with sometimes fatal consequences. And that the "Monday-itis" doesn't contribute to stigma and belittling of those with the condition. HTH.

Good point about -aholic, which I hadn't thought of and probably isn't great either.

DocHollywood · 21/06/2015 21:50

I thought -phile and -phobe covered love and hate pretty well but perhaps these terms are considered old-fashioned now.

mrsfuzzy · 21/06/2015 21:52

seems a a storm in a bleaching cap to me, i have bi polar and i'm a bit of a head case sometimes. lighten up, er sorry, sense of humour.

AdeleDazeem · 21/06/2015 21:53

Linguistically speaking, if 'orexia' means 'an appetite' then someone who is 'tanorexic' simply has an appetite for tans. A 'blondorexic' would have an appetite for blonde.

But, would a 'blondorexic' have an appetite for blonde people, or for the state of being blonde? Presumably the latter. Also, in both cases, you'd have to take 'has an appetite for' as 'likes' rather than 'has a (literal) hunger for'. A bit of poetic licence.

This is the problem with making up words. How do you decide? Well, common usage. Whatever meaning the majority assign to a word or phrase will become the meaning. Which is how the word 'literally' is now in the dictionary with a definition which is the opposite of what the word means.

lljkk · 21/06/2015 21:53

Thanks for the explanation, RepeatAdN !
I think given that explanation, there's no reason to take offence.

Bonde-addict would make more sense if they wanted something silly, though.

TwinkieTwinkle · 21/06/2015 21:57

Jeez Louise... Apologies if I offend anyone but you are massively overreacting! I mean really?! Surely there are far more important things to get het up over? As people have said:

The suffix orexia means appetite for

People cannot spend their lives constantly pussy footing around others. Anorexia is a terrible disorder but it does not mean that 'orexia' should be solely attributed to it. People talk about butchering language, in cases like this I realise how close we are to losing any link we have to ancient languages, in case of 'offending' others.

Sparklingbrook · 21/06/2015 22:00

Blonde-addict may also offend...

lljkk · 21/06/2015 22:01

Blonde loving?

CactusAnnie · 21/06/2015 23:20

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TwinkieTwinkle · 21/06/2015 23:21

I am genuinely interested what the op, who talked about the 'bastardising' of language, thinks about asking people to censor their use of a suffix so not to offend others.

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