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To think this is rude at a concert

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TheRobbingBastards · 18/06/2015 08:08

We went to DS's Summer concert last night. This is a big event for the music department and the children who perform.

My judgey pants were pulled well up at the couple who arrived with two younger DS's (about 7is) in tow, plonked themselves in the front row then fished an iPad in a luminous green case out of a bag. The two boys then spent the whole concert playing a game that involved much waving of arms. All the time they were sat in front of the stage, in direct eyeline of the children performing Hmm

In fairness they had the sound down, both boys stayed in their seats all the way through the concert and apart from the occasional muffled gasp or cheer they were quiet. I also realise that expecting DC to behave themselves through an event like that is easier said than done, and don't necessarily judge the parents for using an iPad to keep them entertained. It's more the inconsideration of allowing them to distract the performers as well as the audience several rows behind them.

So AIBU and curmudgeonly or was this unnecessarily rude and thoughtless?

YetAnotherBeckyMumsnet · 19/06/2015 11:59

Hello
Thanks to everyone who reported this thread.

We'd like to remind you that Mumsnet aims to support parents and find ways we can all make life easier during this parenting lark- this is especially true for parents of children with additional needs who often face extra struggles.

We know the OP was not referring to children with SN specifically, but some of the later posts on this thread are, and they are not really very supportive at all. If there is one thing we could all use as parents, it's a little moral support.

Please bear that in mind when you post.

If you get a chance, please have a look at our This Is My Child Campaign for some information on why raising awareness is so important.
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DawnMumsnet · 20/06/2015 10:11

Morning all,

We've had many more reports about this thread, and what's coming up time and again is the insensitive language being used by some posters.

Can everyone please take on board that a child with special needs is just that – not a 'SN child'.

We'd be really grateful if everyone could take a look at this page from our This Is My Child Campaign, which explains why the language people use in everyday life is so important.

We'll be deleting any posts which we feel are disablist, and would ask everyone to please take care to be sensitive when posting.

Many thanks Flowers

EmmanuelleMumsnet · 20/06/2015 20:31

Evening all,

Just wanted to let you know we will be suspending posting on this thread shortly.

We've had A LOT of reports about it all day, and it's true it has now turned into something of bunfight...

We can also see evidence of a number of sock puppets, and we need some time at MNHQ to go through it all properly.

Also, we did link to it upthread, but please do take a look at our This Is My Child campaign if you haven't already.

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