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To be annoyed at dog owner whose dog followed me when running

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Flyonthewindscreen · 17/06/2015 10:17

I have just got back from a post school drop off run with a friend down country lanes. At one point a young sheepdog started following us. It came from outside a cluster of several houses so it wasn't clear which one. Me and friend are not dog owners or lovers so not sure what to do. We stopped several times and told the dog to go home but it carried on following us. We decided that if it was still following us by the time we got to the end of the lane and reached the main road, we would change our plans for a circular run and go back the way we came to see if the dog would go home.

Before the main road we passed a house with a man working in the garden and asked if he knew where the dog lived. He didn't but caught the dog for us and checked its collar but no address tag. He said he would hold on to the dog for a bit until we were out of sight in the hope that the dog would then go home.

Shortly after that, a car screeched to a halt next to us. The wandering dog and its owner were in the car. She had driven down the road and found the dog being held by the man. She was furious with us for letting the dog follow us and not returning it home. We did point out that it had been wandering free with no address on its collar and that we were not dog owners and had no idea what we were supposed to do and neither of us liked dogs and wanted to deal with her dog anyway. Also that we had been planning to change our plans and return the way we came if we had got to the main road anyway.

She was still angry and said it was not the first time her dog had followed runners down the road and they had not made the effort to return it!

AIBU to think me and friend hadn't actually done anything wrong?

OP posts:
SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 17/06/2015 13:05

"I'd have carried on running. Not your dog, not your problem."

The new MN version of 'Not my circus, not my monkeys', maybe?

Fabulassie · 17/06/2015 13:08

I think this may be the first dog-related AIBU with total consensus!

reni1 · 17/06/2015 13:19

I would be so tempted to jog past again and have dog follow me just to give her a proper bollocking.

popalot · 17/06/2015 13:24

poor dog trying to escape its grumpy owner!

SantasLittleMonkeyButler · 17/06/2015 13:26

Wow. If this is a regular occurrence, she needs to be sorting out her garden so that the dog can't escape!

Lucky you were runners. You could have been driving & not noticed the loose dog until it was too late.

SantasLittleMonkeyButler · 17/06/2015 13:30

Thinking further... The only way she would remotely have a point is if one of the following two things applied:

  1. You opened a gate to her property, thereby letting the dog out (which I don't think you did).

  2. You were, in fact, running across private property with no public right of way (again, which I don't think you were).

Failing that, she is indeed a woman with issues.

KahloSherman · 17/06/2015 13:30

If it happens again, get the council dog wardens to pick it up. She will have to pay to get it back and will get a bollocking too.

Love the cow story!

TTWK · 17/06/2015 13:31

Sheepdogs are quite intelligent. It was probably running away because it was fed up of being the most responsible one in the house!

Can't be much fun for a dog having a higher IQ than its owner.

tbtc · 17/06/2015 13:36

Oh you could have had some fun with this.

Next time take a note book and pen and if she stops to berate you, note down the steps she would like you to take. Do it all terribly seriously, then read it back to her to make sure you've got it all down correctly. Then ask her to sign it.

You could ask some pertinent questions like whether you should take snacks with you to feed the dog, maybe some water, a grooming kit?

Momagain1 · 17/06/2015 13:40

That poor man in the garden at the end of the road is going to get to know her and her dog too well. If he is out there regularly, soon enough the dog will have been trained to follow people as far as his house!

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