Went to a close family members funeral today. Geographically far away, involving three hours each way on public transport. Highly charged and extraordinarily emotional due to young age of the deceased and sudden unexpected nature of their passing plus the fact that they left three young children. Lots of family there I hadn't seen for a LONG time (years!). Kissed DH goodbye early this morn, dropped DC's at school then began to make my way to funeral. Text DH whilst travelling. Had long, emotionally charged day with family then made my way back home. Text DH at start of journey home, he sent some pictures of what he got up to with DC's afterschool.
Got home late to be greeted by DH in a complete strop that I hadn't text or phoned him during the day, that he must be low priority etc and when I'm with my family I forget about him (& by extension our children!). I have a pounding headache and sore face etc from all todays crying so basically told him I couldn't deal with him right now and have come to bed. He's in a huff downstairs.
AIBU to have not contacted him during this upsetting traumatic day or is he a selfish prick who has managed to twist things to be about him?