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To think DH won't get another job without 2 references?

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AliceScarlett · 11/06/2015 18:59

DH works for a charity, there is a lot of talk of redundancy and he wants to get a new job in the same sector (health and social care). Trouble is his job before this one was gardening, he was seriously injured and sued the employer, no contact now and no reference.
So many jobs ask for 3 references.... his chances of getting another job are really reduced because of this arnt they? How do other people get around this? He cant be the only one!
His job before that was relevant and he might be able to get a reference from there but is not what employers are asking for Confused

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ActiviaYoghurt · 11/06/2015 19:05

Of course people get jobs without two references, otherwise how would anyone get a third job?

Gardening reference would be fine or how about a really good character reference?

Purplevicki · 11/06/2015 19:14

Yep. Character reference is the way forward. Especially if it was from someone with 'good standing' (ie someone who can sign off passport and driving licence applications)

mileend2bermondsey · 11/06/2015 19:16

I think it depends on what level job he's going for, how much responsibility/senoirity the role has. I've had loads of jobs in the past where references were ased for but never checked and a few where they were never even asked.

Youre attitude that hes never going to get a job without references certainly isnt helpfull though.

mileend2bermondsey · 11/06/2015 19:16

asked your

ftmsoon · 11/06/2015 19:21

I've been in my job so long that I gave two references from there when I was job hunting last year. One from previous job was completely irrelevant as soooo long ago.

queenofthepirates · 11/06/2015 19:33

You could just be up front and say he left on poor terms after a workplace accident (perhaps no mention of suing). I left my last but one job and had to reach a compromise agreement with my employer. At the next job, I just didn't list them as a referee and went back to a previous job where I knew I'd get a better reference.

Littlef00t · 11/06/2015 19:47

I gave two references from my last place of employment as I'd been there 8 years straight from uni. I'd offer one from charity and another character reference, a colleague from before or someone he's worked with in a professional capacity. That's fine.

Fluffyears · 11/06/2015 20:04

When I started one job onecompany I worked for previously had re-located and everyone had taken redundancy so I got a good friend (good job can sign passports) to write a character reference. She basically said u was honest, trustworthy, reliable etc

DidoTheDodo · 11/06/2015 20:07

I usually give my current (or most recent previous) employer, plus an ex colleague from the same sector (I am also in charity world) who can vouch for my day to day work.

Fluffcake · 11/06/2015 22:51

He could get 2 from current employer. One from line manager and from either colleague as a character type reference or from hr dept stating dates of employment.

Haffdonga · 11/06/2015 23:02

Why can't he get 2 references? {confused]
Current employer + colleague + friend + employer before gardener + line manager + anyone else who has known him for more than 2 or so years.
He's got loads of choice. Smile

Salmotrutta · 11/06/2015 23:07

Agree with others:

One from direct line manager then another from someone higher up - both from his present job.

Quite common!

ilovesooty · 11/06/2015 23:08

I agree. Two from his current job.

HFarnsworth20 · 11/06/2015 23:09

I wouldn't worry too much. Most places will only ask for two - I recently changed jobs and applied for a managerial post, and was only asked for two referees.

Pumpkinpositive · 11/06/2015 23:12

I have been self employed most of my adult life, with temporary spells of employment. I have had only one period of actual salaried employment within the last ten years, so anything outside of that time frame is too long ago to go on a reference.

When applying for jobs, I give the most recent salaried job as a reference, and then a character reference. I sometimes ask clients for references, if I've worked with them for over a long period.

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