To wonder why a random teenage lad ON A moped has just called for my husband

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Weird, kids were out in garden and said a guys here for daddy went out and I dont know him but asked if he was in, said no hes at work and asked his name, he told me but never heard of him. I asked him what he wanted and he said was wanting to ask a favour about a car then asked for his number. Said im not giving him it and he said oh ok ill try catch him another time. Was pleasent enough but I dont like that sort of thing.

Txt husband but doubt he will reply until his break :(

OP, I think it really does have some boring explanation.

Please don't think people don't care - I know that anxiety is bloody horrible. I guess a few posters are messing around because they know this will have a very boring explanation.

Hope you're ok. Have some

This is AIBU, not behave like cunts to other posters.

Hope it turns out to be a friend of your brother.

This sort of thing would bother me too!

He probably sells your husband a bit of weed every now and then that he smokes in secret.

I'm sure it's nothing to worry about. If it happens again, in person or if you get a phone call you feel uncomfortable about, get their name and number, then you're in control.

Wirecat - no need to be so aggressive.

Clearly having a gay affair with his teenage drug dealer.

I hate the 'C' word....,

Well it's bothering me now and i don't even know your husband, vodka! Please come back and update us when you get to the bottom of it and have some in the meantime to calm your nerves

Oh yes, definitely update !

I will let you know yes. Sorry if i sounded "off" earlier just dont do sarcasm very well. I over reacted to the situation and teplies

Does your husband know a lot about cars?

Hes not a mechanic no but he is into cars has recently bought an old banger he keeps fiddling about with with my brother could be to do with that

I'm sure that will be it. I worry about daft things like this too. You are not alone :)

You know a knock on the door is a request not an order, don't you?

I often ignore the door when not expecting anyone and that might be a better way of managing your anxiety than posting in AIBU.

I bet the lad is buying his first car and someone has recommended your dh as someone who can offer advice.

I am thinking you maybe should have taken his number OP, in case DH and your DBro have no idea who he is, then at least they could ring him and find out what he wants! But hopefully DBro will be able to shed some light.

I think you are getting an undeserved hard time here.

Was my brothers mate. No valid reason according to my brother but said hes asked and it was him. Hubby doesnt seem any wiser.

Brother goes round with a bad crowd there always upto something so still bit concerned as been spending lot of time together.

It's probably a dealer then.

Could he be selling dodgy stuff?

I've had a couple of younger lads knocking on for DP to see if he wanted stolen gardening gear they know his nephew and he said he might be intrested

DP obviously told them to fuck off

Bit strange!

has hubbie replied yet?

Yes hubby finished work at 10pm he thinks he knows who it was met him at weekend but didnt know his name said was gonna try find him on facebook see what he wanted

I would just like to point out, as someone's DH, that I do occasionally talk to people from all walks of life, sometimes people I wouldn't remember, and sometimes offer random people help with eg: cars, and I am hardly buggering them or running a meth empire with them at all.

Just putting that out there.