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AIBU?

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To think I am being treat like a fool?

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Bouncealine · 07/06/2015 20:54

Dh and I separated a few years ago, we recently decided to have a fresh start (about 3 months ago) things are a bit up and down but we're both happy. There are a few issues but the biggest one is that he's moved in with me and our 2dc however he has only given me £150 so far towards any bills or rent.. He never pays for a proper shop and doesn't buy the dc any of the necessities that they need. We have spoken about it a few times but nothing seems to hit home with him. I think he feels like he deserves to live for free as I was a sahm before we split. Aibu to tell him to suck it up and sort himself out?

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Bouncealine · 31/12/2015 13:09

If only I'd have listened to you all sooner! I certainly learnt from that mistake..

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Hissy · 31/12/2015 13:24

Are you ok love? What happened?

RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 13:27

I've just read through this and realised it was six months ago - what's the state of play now op? Are you alright?

LaurieFairyCake · 31/12/2015 13:35

What happened?

steppedonlego · 31/12/2015 13:39

Hope you're okay OP

ShipwreckedAndComatose · 31/12/2015 13:43

Are you ok, Bounce?

StrictlyMumDancing · 31/12/2015 13:47

Hope you're ok

BalaRua · 31/12/2015 13:48

Hoping you are ok op.

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Bouncealine · 31/12/2015 13:58

I'm okay thank you, he royally screwed me over by taking all money from my accounts and then proceeded to make my life hell. This all happened about 4 months ago and he's still trying to destroy me. I should have learnt the first time.

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Ooogetyooo · 31/12/2015 14:12

I thought you started out with separate accounts? Hope you all are better off without him, that sounds awful.

HeartsTrumpDiamonds · 31/12/2015 14:16

Oh fucking hell Bounce, that's awful.

Hope you manage to have a happy new year.

Idefix · 31/12/2015 14:28

for you op, what a total twunt he was/is. Really hoped when I started reading this that things had turned out good.

Hoping that 2016 brings you better fortunes.

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Bouncealine · 31/12/2015 15:37

I stupidly gave him my PIN number for my card so he could get his car fixed, he got a new phone with it too. He got me sacked from work and caused trouble at dc school. Everything's a lot better now. It's amazing how much better you feel when you get rid of a cock lodger! He's someone else's problem now. Thanks for the flowers.

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Hissy · 31/12/2015 15:40

Jesus

ImperialBlether · 31/12/2015 15:45

God almighty.

to you and a very, VERY happy new year without this idiot.

OTheHugeManatee · 31/12/2015 15:53

Jesus what an utter prick

Keep your chin up, stay strong and you'll get through this

OTheHugeManatee · 31/12/2015 15:54

And yes, tonight you can celebrate the fact that you'll be starting the New Year WITHOUT this thieving, selfish waste of skin.

ShipwreckedAndComatose · 31/12/2015 19:31

Roll on 2016!! Sounds like the New Year will be the beginning of better things xx

ShipwreckedAndComatose · 31/12/2015 19:32

LindyHemming · 31/12/2015 19:35

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RJnomore1 · 31/12/2015 20:03

Sounds like you're in a good place now. Here's to a very happy 2016.

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