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To have wanted to intervene

27 replies

prorsum · 02/06/2015 18:20

There's a man who sits outside a local newsagents asking for money. He's been there fairly regularly, sometimes I give him a quid or 50p, sometimes I walk by.

He sits and intermittently raises his hand as people walk by and will ask for change, he's not in your face. Today I chose to walk by but a man behind me went ballistic on him. Telling he worked hard for his money and why should we pay for him. It was the we that really got, the way he dragged the rest of the people on the street into it. Nobody took any notice of him, just let him rant and walk away. I did want to challenge him though but he was in a rage and so frankly was I, other reasons, so thought better to let it go.

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sadwidow28 · 04/06/2015 21:00

onedogatoddlerandababy - nobody on this thread is 'moralising' about the homeless needing drink or drugs. It is just better that no money is given to an 'unknown' homeless person because that could lead to a violent or frightening anti-social episode resulting in criminal behaviour.

Do you know that once we get them into a proper support system (even if they stay on the street) they are prescribed methadone and/or whisky? It is too dangerous for an alcoholic to be deprived of alcohol without proper medical intervention, so until that can be achieved, the alcoholism has to be maintained so that body organs don't shut down. Similarly, going 'cold turkey' on the street is more anti-social and dangerous than assisting the homeless to rehabilitate. (Not all want to get clean by the way)

I probably see more of the homeless with dogs (and cats in bags) because I walk my dog with me as I do 'the soup run'. I couldn't bare to be without my dog - he is my life - so why would I expect a homeless person to hand over his/her faithful companion to the RSPCA just so they can get a bed? My dog carries light-weight dog/cat food in his panniers when we are walking. Other volunteers do the nights when I am not 'on'.

It's a very complex situation. We all should do our best - whatever little that is.

But the homeless person in the OPs post was verbally abused and belitted. That is so, so wrong IMO.

sadwidow28 · 04/06/2015 21:03

In the spirit of understanding this issue, please read Ian McFadyen's story: www.edinburghnews.scotsman.com/life-style/from-public-schoolboy-to-begging-on-the-streets-1-3347514

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