Ex and I are currently in the court system re: contact with our dd who's 7. He hasn't seen or asked about her since January when I had to stop contact on advice of SS. In court three weeks ago he demanded interim contact before cafcass file their report; I refused direct contact but offered indirect contact in the form of phone calls/letters/emails. He said he'd take this but still wanted direct interim contact so we're back in court next week.
Since the last court date we've sent three emails, photos, two letters and have called three times. Dd has had no response. He's trying to say I'm alienating dd so I've kept proof of posting, phone records and delivery reports of emails for court. Aibu to think he is being a dick by not contacting dd and that you can't onlybe iinterested in your child if you can physically see them?