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AIBU?

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to not want to hear about db and sil's sex life and certainly not want to be patronised about it?

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KindergartenKop · 25/05/2015 10:22

Db and his gf (sil for the purposes of mn) have been together for a couple of years. I think they met on the internet and share a group of mutual friends who enjoy the same sexual practices. They are always mentioning how they are into sub/dom stuff, bondage etc. Recently they were telling us all about a wedding they went to and then showed me a video of the dancing where half the people were naked, though not sil (db was filming!), this led to db going on about how this is great and how he knows all the names of the naked women! I'm not being prudish, I love naked, but I don't want to know so , much about their sex lives.
To add insult to ewwwness then sil goes on about how dh and I are innocent, we don't need to be sullied by all of this information! As if dh and I are 12! I am aware of a wide range of kinky sex stuff and as long as it's consensual then thats fine but I don't want to hear any details of their sex life, nor do I feel it necessary to share mine. Aibu?

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KindergartenKop · 25/05/2015 13:50

I might tell him to stfu then!

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AlternativeTentacles · 25/05/2015 14:44

'hmm...yeah - a bit vanilla to be honest. I really don't want to know about your sexlife - turn it off there's a good Bro/SIL'

Theycallmemellowjello · 25/05/2015 14:48

Oh my god I have encountered people into dom and sub stff who are amazingly patronising about their sex lives! It's so weird! Stuff like weirdly hinting at what they do and acting like it would blow everyone else's mind if they knew what they got up to. Yanbu, everyone's sex life is fascinating to themselves and boring to everyone else.

suzannecanthecan · 25/05/2015 15:41

smugly alluding to the mind blowingness of one's rumpy pumpy is just naff oversharing

Iliveinalighthousewiththeghost · 25/05/2015 16:06

Ynbu. What are they expecting a round of applause. Woop de foo, you're having sex. As pp says it just shows insecurity and immaturity as well.
I had a friend who used to give me a running commentary on her sex
Life.
In the end I couldn't help myself I just said I'm not interested how many times a week you're having a shag. You sound like you're not getting any bragging like that.
Grow up. You're not the only women in the world shagging. She didn't know where to put her face.
I don't brag. I don't have to prove a point to anyone!

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