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AIBU to think this is really cheeky and rude (street parking related)?

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BinToHellAndBack · 22/05/2015 16:01

The street I live in almost all on-street parking with only one or two driveways. There's plenty of parking for residents and overnight you can easily park outside of or close to your own house.

The trouble is that very close by is a sports facility with no parking. At particular times of day the road become chaotic with no parking spaces to return to if you go out. Most of the people who park here do so considerately, but a few don't park close to the pavement and block the road to wide vehicles (it's a VERY narrow street). Others decide it's fine to block a strangers drive if there's no space available. Also frustrating (although perfectly legal) is the not parking even vaguely close to other cars and using up space that another car or two could park in. On the whole it's ok though.

I've spent a long time finding the lack of parking frustrating but have eventually decided that I just need to chill out about it. It is what it is, and using street parking is the only choice the sports-facility users have. I'm telling myself that my inconvenience doesn't equate to their wrongdoing (for most of them), even when I do have to traipse home from streets away with bags of shopping plus baby and toddler Grin. Plus I'm sure I've done the same without even realising at other times.

Two weeks ago, various neighbours (not ones I know) all suddenly started putting cones outside to mark 'their' space. All within days of each other. Even if they go out all day the cones are there, and as far as I can see no-one has dared interfere them to use the space for parking.

At first I wondered if someone was doing this as they were disabled and needed better access to their house (fair enough, no-one would begrudge that)... but surely not all of them all the same time?! It looks like someone may have gone first and others have seen their chance jumped on the bandwagon. I had to park next to one the coned-off areas just around the corner from my house a few days ago. As I pulled into it the net curtain shot up and a very angry looking woman glared at me for my entire parking job (whilst holding her curtain up above her head with outstretched arms and pressing herself up against the window!). And that was for parking next to 'her' coned off spot!

I just laughed at the time, but AIBU to think this is pretty harsh on other residents and possibly even illegal? Nobody minds the odd time of doing it if you're expecting a skip or something to be delivered, but 4+ people doing it every day is a lot of road lost that surely everyone is equally entitled to?!

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Fatmomma99 · 22/05/2015 20:04

Yes, Andrew, but don't you agree that there's a difference between living somewhere and something new happening/coming along which drastically changes the way you live and choosing to live somewhere when you KNOW there's a sports facility/school/airport/whatever at the bottom of your road?

TheClacksAreDown · 22/05/2015 20:13

You should lobby for residents parking on event days. A friend of mine lives walking distance of a London premier league football match and part of the residents controls include when there are matches on.

Andrewofgg · 22/05/2015 20:20

I see your point FatMomma99 - but if you buy a house on an unrestricted street you take the chance of something like this coming along. If it were not so nothing could every get built. Not NIMBY but BANANA - Build Absolutely Nothing Anywhere Near Anyone - or SOBBY - Some Other Bugger's Back Yard.

DarthVadersTailor · 22/05/2015 20:26

Cones are an obstruction of the highway and a police issue, a call to 101 can solve this.

I would highly suggest speaking to the council and asking about the possibility of introducing an experimental traffic regulation order for waiting restrictions and residential permit parking, this way only residents can park in the spaces provided. Speak to the TRO manager in their Highways department and see what advice they can offer. It may also be worth pursuing that issue through your local councillor as generally speaking when they get involved and complain on your behalf to your LA they tend to get results.

Good luck!

pictish · 22/05/2015 20:31

YaDnbu. My road has a very similar set up but instead of a sports facility it's a church. Most of the time it's fine - when the church is having a service or another event, it's packed.

I'd be shocked and annoyed if my neighbours cordoned off space on the public road with cones. They'd have no right! You buy a house without a driveway or allocated private space then tough.

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