To selfishly buy things from the supermarket while my partner is asleep

[Ephervent123]

My partner is accusing me of being selfish because I ordered groceries from Tesco online when she was asleep, and didn't wait until the next day to order. This is even though I only spent £25 on stuff I needed/wanted and the money isn't a problem. Now she's saying she will be withholding sex because I am being selfish.

Not sure what she wanted me to do. I can't see I'm being selfish aibu?

Joan

If the partner didn't know the OP was going to do an online shop then she must have had a plan to get the stuff she needs anyway so I don't see a problem.

I don't think the gender of the OP matters does it?

It depends, if you normally buy stuff together then I can see why she's pissed off, otherwise YANBU.

Yes, I think it was pretty selfish to not ask her if she wanted anything. Her reaction is childish though.

Hmm... Think you may have been a bit shortsighted regarding the shopping but withholding sex!!! I think your partner's the unreasonable one here. Am thinking of icebergs and tips...

Arsenic, yes quite agree! I loath the online shop.