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To reply to a Fbk friend request from an ex bully like this?!

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Figamol · 20/05/2015 13:04

I left school 17 years ago but I can't forget some of the awful tormentors there, it leaves its mark. Obviously their memories are shorter and all ask to be Facebook friends. There was a particularly mean one who has just for the second time asked to be my Facebook friend. The first time I quietly deleted the request. But now I feel like being less gracious, and want to reply this.

Hi ,
You do know the last time you saw me you were violently lobbing books at me whilst I was in bed at *s house at her 18th, and when your back was turned I legged it to the phone to call my parents to come get me before you really hurt me?! And then I never heard from you again…..not sure why you'd add me now!?!
Your children are gorgeous, enjoy them xxx
Me

Is the above message pathetic and I should take the quiet higher road or do you think its reasonable? I would prob be opening myself up to an attack I guess, it just galls me she does not remember our 'friendship' in the same dark light!!!

OP posts:
donemekmelarf · 20/05/2015 14:16

'I am not accepting your request, we are not friends and never have been.'

If you send anything, send this one. Short, sweet and to the point.

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