I'm 36. I work two part time jobs, both fairly manual work, on my feet and lifting a fair bit. I've got issues with my back; 2 herniated discs and a couple more bulging and on the brink of popping, and the beginnings of osteo-arthritis in my knees. I'm seriously struggling at work :(
The doctor has referred me for physio, which I've got an appointment for next month, and has repeatedly told me to rest, which is easier said than done, as I don't get sick pay. I've been paying for a chiropractor, which helps a little bit, but an hour back at work and I'm back to square one. I feel like I'm surviving on painkillers, and the thought of doing this for the next 30+ years is filling me with dread.
I need a new job, but I have no idea what path to follow. I'm qualified to do very little, and have always done office/desk/retail type jobs. The ones I do fit in nicely around school, which is largely why I do them, but I've got to accept the fact that I can't manage 7 hours on my feet now, let alone a few years further down the line.
So many jobs seem to be short hours contracts, requiring complete flexibility between the hours of 8am and 8pm, which I struggle with, as I'm a single parent with limited childcare options (small village with not a lot of childminders etc., only family is my dad, who lives 7 miles away and is not in great health). I'm prepared to go back to school and retrain to do something else; I've always fancied working for myself, but never really known what I want to do.
I'm in a good position of owning a house, mortgage free, so I don't need a huge income, but I do have a bit of credit card debt from doing the house up. Nothing I can't manage though, but I do need to factor that into my outgoings. I just don't know what to do. I can't go on like this, that's one thing I do know!
Any ideas?