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to not want to organise a collection at school again

30 replies

Narnia72 · 18/05/2015 16:12

I'm often the person who ends up organising collections and stuff at school. I hold back and wait for others to volunteer, but no-one else does.

I've just been organising a collection for a teacher who is leaving. I had to chase people several times for collection money - I had made it clear that it was entirely optional, as was the amount, but these were people who kept saying "oh sorry, remind me tomorrow, I do want to contribute I just keep forgetting".

Anyway, I did it, organised a personalised present from all the kids. Asked someone else to collect it, they still haven't - teacher leaving this week.

Sorted out a personalised photo card from the kids - put on our school parents fb page what I'd done - not a "look at me guys aren't I great" but just a summary of the presents, as not everyone knew what we were getting and asked people to make sure their kids signed the card. It really wasn't a stealth boast or anything.

2 people out of the class of 30 have liked the post, no-one, not one bugger has said "thanks for organising", either in person or on fb.

I am not going to do it again. It's hard work, and I hate being "that mum" in the playground that always chases people up. Some other mug can do the next one (which is coming up).

I don't need a big bouquet or a a three cheers for Narnia in the playground, but a little appreciation goes a long way.

If someone is organising a class collection please say thanks to them. It really is a thankless task and if they're doing it it means you don't have to!

OP posts:
yallahabibi · 18/05/2015 18:03

I always gave my teachers tiny things like a soap or some sweets . Now I've children in school I've always being badgered into giving money for teachers or TA gifts . This summer the mothers with no taste and nothing else to do ,want us to chip in for a Tiffany bracelet .
They threw a baby shower for last years TA who left preggers . I hate all this .... Did it come from the U.S. ?

ShatnersBassoon · 18/05/2015 18:10

Evidently nobody else cares about getting the teachers leaving presents. Don't do it again, you'll be doing everyone including yourself a favour.

NormHonal · 18/05/2015 18:10

OP, I've been in your shoes and its rotten - other parents can be so ungrateful but happy to be there and soak up the teacher's thanks when the moment comes.

FGS do not, do NOT agree to be the Chairperson.

sharonthewaspandthewineywall · 18/05/2015 18:36

Group birthday presents for kids?
You mums sound very over invested in the whole school mummies thing I've got to say

Ragwort · 18/05/2015 19:47

Just stay out of it, it really doesn't matter if the teacher gets 30 boxes of chocolates, surely you've all got better things to do than worry about a teacher's leaving presents. Grin.

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