Iv'e name changed for this.
Divorced acrimoniously from h.
The usual , he told lies I tried to make it work.
He lied and we had a temporary split only for me to discover there was a ow.
He spent money which we did not have ( unbeknown to me) left me with no option but to move out of the family home with my 3 dcs and seek local authority housing which thankfully we were allocated after the bank were on the verge of repossessing our home due to ex h spending then refusal to pay his debts.
He does not pay maintenance and refused point blank to agree access to see the dcs.
The usual. If I had acted the same then I would expect to be in prison for child neglect.
Whilst divorcing I sought a round the table meeting to try and thrash out a compromise with regard to finances.
He point blank refused to meet me face to face, therefore ensued a costly legal bill.
In the end I stumped up the cost of divorce. Agreed to let the house go for well under market value.
Changed my number on the advice of my solicitor and the police. Dcs all have phones so ex can contact them.
Against my better nature I gave him my phone number mainly to stop him ringing dd1 asking her to tell me this and that and what a crap mother I am etc etc.
The last time he called he started telling me that the debt he had accrued was for x and y . I told him not to mention it as it was i the past and of no consequence to me now, I have moved on. Cue the ow screaming abuse in the background. I hung up , refused to answer again.
Cue several messages to dd1 again telling her that everything was my daultand one day she would come to realise that her having to leave her nice home was all my fault.
I now gave a new phone.
Ex h had phoned both ds to ask for my new number, thankfully they have not given it to him.
He has said he needs to speak to me, with regards to the unresolved issue of finances.
I can wait .
He has told the girls that I have refused his offer of how to split the house proceeds.
I don't want him to ring me he knows this.
Sorry this is long.
Why won't he just sod off?