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AIBU?

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To be very annoyed with dh

15 replies

shinysparklythings · 16/05/2015 08:51

I just went to get some breakfast.put my weetabix into a bowl, looked in fridge to get milk, none there. Looked in garage fridge none there either. :( there is no bread for toast or any alternative breakfast fodder. So now I have to get dressed and go to the shop when I was planning on having a lazy day as I am pregnant and exhausted after a manic week at work.

Aibu to think that my husband should of at least warned me before he went off on his bike ride?

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ChwatFeechers · 16/05/2015 08:59

YANBU. Common courtesy.

MagelanicClouds · 16/05/2015 09:03

Argh, yanbu! My DH has done that sort of thing, usually with eggs though, but will not think to mention to me that he's scoffed the lot. What sort of person has five eggs scrambled all to themselves??
He will often use up the last of something, with perfectly legitimate reasons, but will neglect to either mention it to me or put it on the shopping list.
I will now mention he has remarkably improved after I took him to task over the egg thing.

Quitelikely · 16/05/2015 09:03

Were you sleeping when he left?

shinysparklythings · 16/05/2015 09:04

No I was awake sat on the sofa talking to him. I even helped him out by finding the sun block!

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mojo17 · 16/05/2015 09:09

Phone him text him saying there is an emergency he has yo bring milk to you now :-)

OhYouBadBadKitten · 16/05/2015 09:11

To make this into a good thing can you head to a cafe with a newspaper and have breakfast out?

momtothree · 16/05/2015 09:14

So annoying - when first baby arrived i made DH promise never to leave me without milk or teabags .... he has kept that promise.

shinysparklythings · 16/05/2015 09:18

I went to the shop, got milk and a nice loaf of bread and a pain au chocolate just for me :)

No point texting him, he won't notice his phone. And I have a feeling he is leading the club ride this morning.

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BlackeyedSusan · 16/05/2015 09:37

if he is going to be late back for tea... eat all that.. or order a take away for one and a half either that or he will have to do whatever housework you are now too tired for when he gets back. Make him feel the consequences of his actions.

Of course he might just be unthoughtful rather than twattish and telling him that it not acceptable would be sufficient for it not to happen again.

MQv2 · 16/05/2015 09:48

I'm baffled as to the problem here tbh

Yabu

littlejohnnydory · 16/05/2015 09:48

Did he eat the last of everything? If so, he was selfish and should have said. If not, it was your joint responsibility to notice yesterday.

perfectlybroken · 16/05/2015 09:52

Ltb

AlisonBlunderland · 16/05/2015 10:11

If there was enough food / milk last night for 2 decent breakfast and he has eaten the lot, yes YANBU.

Otherwise you are both at fault for not making sure that you had enough stores in the house the evening before

shinysparklythings · 16/05/2015 10:21

He did some shopping last night and said he had checked the fridge! Hes a grown man I don't expect to need to check!

he's a lovely husband really, just wanted a grumble

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redskybynight · 16/05/2015 10:33

Did he realise he'd had the last of everything? If he'd (say) finished the milk in the fridge he might have expected them to be some in the garage or for there to be some bread left.

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