I wasn't being funny with you, Odd. I was genuinely interested how you could possibly know whether I'd been on it from my reply - particularly since as I said, you were right that I haven't been!
I mean, I still (stubbornly you will no doubt say
) stand by the core of my argument - policies can and should be reviewed and change is always possible. I never ever think that there's no way to do things differently or that a procedure followed is the end of the matter, even if it's not the best way to do things.
If the suggestions I thought of off the top of my head were general and not the best way of doing things in this specific situation, I am very sure that there are changes they could make that would have the same effect, really. Identifying issues and making changes that address the issues is what it's about.
Also, would and could are different things. They could do a lot of things. Whether they would is another matter. But they could have more staff. They could have an announcement, they could change the boarding system, they could make lots of changes. They could send out policies. You say they couldn't but they could, if they chose to. It's not that they are physically unable. It's a procedural thing. And procedures can change.
I used to do this for a (very frustrating!) living. I'd go into care homes and look at their policies, procedures, everything. I'd hear we can't... it's not possible... this is how we do it... it's always been this way... this is the policy... even if things weren't working. People are resistant to change. So my first questions are always is this working? is there any reason change is not physically possible?
but the kicking - I wasn't talking about the company. I was talking about the beating the op took on here.
poor bugger. She didn't half cop it.
Anyway, I'm not fighting you and never was. I just wanted to know how you knew. And now I do. 