When dd was born it was important to me that she was christened, I am not a regular church goer but I do believe and go when I can. Also dps mum was dying and we wanted her to be there for dds big day so the vicar very kindly squeezed us in at very short notice. Unfortunately this was only a fortnight after my sister's wedding and I know that she was a little miffed as she felt I was upstaging her especially as the wedding was the first time many of our family met dd (she was 8 weeks old at the time).
I knew I wanted my sister as a godparent to dd but I also wanted my best friend and her husband for personal reasons and dp wanted his best friend. I spoke to my sister and asked if her husband would mind not being asked. It wasn't a comment on him just a case of not wanting to go ott. At the time she said he would be fine then a few days later rang me pretty cross and was adamant we had to have her dh. I was miffed as I didn't think it was her place to dictate but for the sake of the bigger picture I agreed and asked him. She pulled a similar stunt when I married my exhibition because I hadn't invited her best friend (who doesn't like me, I have never really known and my own best friend wasn't invited to the meal so if I was able to invite more then she would still not have been on the list) and caused major ructions between me and our dad over it.
Anyway scroll forward to.now and she has had her dd and is holding the christening in a few weeks time. I have not been asked to.be a godparent although her dh's sister has even though she has never spent anytime with the baby. I am actually a lot more pissed off by this than I thought I would be th. She kicked off over my dds christening and yet has neither asked me or my dp.
I know it's her and her dhs choice but I can't help be cross given her form. Tell me I am bu and to move on ladies!
Apologies longer than I expected