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Odd man in my alley way...

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Loric · 10/05/2015 00:50

Ok so around quarter past nine I'm coming back from the local shop ( essential gin run) the quickest route is the alley behind my house. There's plenty of lights plus most people have garages or drives there instead of on their respective roads so it's more like an unnamed road than an alley. There's a man walking his very small dog up the road. It enters my road at an angle. He basically walked up the alley and then walked back a fair distance back to the road he came from. I was 20 ft behind him. It was still daylight. He kept swerving from one side of the alley to the other and sticking his head over random people's back gates. Including my friends 12 doors up froom mine. Even though the dog was usually pulling in the opposite direction. he got to mine (which is due to being an end terrace have a huge garden footprint) and he looked over 6 times. I caught up to him and recognised him as the local scrap man I had a brand new bike in the garden that i'd left out as only my ex can open the gate on the outhouse. Every time he looked over he was focusing on it. I put it straight into the outhouse with my ex's help but I'm still worried not just for my bike safety but for anything else he was eyeing up in the alley. When he realised I was behind him he attempted to appear drunk to excuse his peering into random gardens but I'd watched him for a good 10 mins before he realised I was behind him. We've had a spat of 'scrap men robberies'in the area. Really don't know if I'm over reacting or not at this point. (Also I know said scrap man doesn't live nearby so it's really unnatural to see him walking a dog he clearly doesn't know)

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GloGirl · 10/05/2015 08:42

Yanbu to.make flowers but do you live in the uk? 1.30am is VU to post leaflets..

CaspoFungin · 10/05/2015 08:48

Yeah I think the making and posting of flyers was maybe the gin thinking for you, quite funny though!

GloGirl · 10/05/2015 08:51

... really brain. Flowers instead of flyers? Hmm

I need to sleep for about a year

Jacana · 10/05/2015 09:38

See, my admiration for op has increased.Smile

A job to do,alerting all the neighbours, flyer created and delivered, job done. Hope you've managed a leisurely lie in this morning loric

Aussiemum78 · 10/05/2015 11:05

If you have some handy neighbours maybe you can organise some sensor lights and gate locks as a working bee?

Loric · 10/05/2015 19:01

I ended up leaving the flyers till this morning, and it's a good thing I did because I caught a neighbour from a few doors up as he was getting his milk in who had left some stuff in his yard so he moved it car round the back to block it in (too big to bring in he's having his kitchen done up). Went out and when I got back was a note letting me know the 'scrap man' had squeezed past his car earlier and was trying to work out how to get it past and out the yard. Luckily he'd been keeping an eye out and caught him. Apparently read him the riot act lol. He tried saying he though he'd left it out for him to collect! Cheeky bugger.

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Jacana · 10/05/2015 19:24

Shock bloody thieving skip rat, didn't take him long, did it?

A few years ago when scrap metal prices were really high, I left my bucket of gardening hand tools out the front while I went indoors to have a wee make a coffee. Came out to find my neighbour chasing after the scrappies van which had my bucket + tools piled on it. Angry

Thieving rat bags.Angry your bloke had a good recce,you've delivered your flyers, now it's up to the neighbours to take appropriate action,

Sickening, isn't it?

Loric · 10/05/2015 19:32

I'm just glad I saw him last night or a lot of people could have woken up from a nice Sunday lie in to find he'd nicked their stuff

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Icimoi · 10/05/2015 19:42

Got to admit, I wouldn't have a clue what our local scrap metal dealer looks like, let alone where he lives.

Loric · 10/05/2015 20:04

I only recognised him because he's a friends neighbour and Ive seen him there

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Bair · 10/05/2015 20:18

See if you have a local neighbourhood watch. It's like the armed branch of a parish council.

Loric · 10/05/2015 20:23

I think there's some in the area but doesn't actually cover our bit (we're right on the border of two cities so tend to get left out of most things as each side thinks the other side is covering us.). May have to for up a possee

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Loric · 10/05/2015 20:23

Sorry form up

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TheMaddHugger · 11/05/2015 04:20

Your neighbour need to tell the police what happened.

the POLICE should be doing their job and having a 'word' to this rat

Eastpoint · 11/05/2015 05:33

You can set up your own neighbourhood watch - there should be a Safer Neighbourhoods team you can get in touch with who will help. I run one for our road & a parallel road. About 10 minutes work a month so pretty easy.

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