to have a mini rant

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m0therofdragons · 07/05/2015 14:49

I said something about dd2 having a grumpy week and having tantrums about everything. It's like she's regressed a year as she's 3 and had been lots better. Clearly my friend (friend of a friend who is a know it all but usually tolerable) clearly thinks I'm useless. She's actually suggested I should do more to keep dc busy to avoid tantrums and maybe I could try play dough. Because clearly as an intelligent mum of 3 I haven't figured out dc like play dough. The tantrum was at the end of swimming when she was tired so I think the main issue was she's too busy and needs down time.
I know it's very minor but it seems I don't take well to being patronised. Mind you, makes a change from her going on about how clever her 3yo is and that's why she does structured writing lessons.

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WorraLiberty · 07/05/2015 15:32

She suggested play dough as a way to keep your child occupied and from that you got 'Clearly you're useless', and you felt she was patronising you?

Also, your last line makes you sound a bit petty.

Having said that, I do remember the stress smaller kids can cause but I still think YABU, and taking it too personally.

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m0therofdragons · 07/05/2015 16:36

I think iabu but I think it's the way she says it. Implies I have no idea and don't do anything with my dc.
the last sentence didn't really explain the context - she told me I'm lucky my dc aren't bright which went onto the fact she has to do structured writing as her dd is very bright.

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sparkysparkysparky · 07/05/2015 16:39

Some people are so insecure that the make a competition out of parenthood. Take a deep breath and forget the bloody play dough.

WorraLiberty · 07/05/2015 16:43

Oh, in that case I'd shove the play dough up her arse and see if it comes out her ears

AlpacaLypse · 07/05/2015 16:44

she told me I'm lucky my dc aren't bright which went onto the fact she has to do structured writing as her dd is very bright.

Jaw dropping!

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m0therofdragons · 07/05/2015 18:44

Thing is she says it nicely so I feel if I challenge her i would look like the bitch. her dd probably is bright - I've not assessed her - but there are ways of saying it.
For the record I do do playdough etc. Don't all mums?

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VelvetRose · 07/05/2015 18:47

She sounds unbearable. I avoid know it all parents like that.

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