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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to want a pet?

30 replies

Bogal · 05/05/2015 12:19

I lived in rented, strictly no pets places for years, then when DH and I bought our first place we decided to renovate it, then get chickens as it had a lovely big back garden. V soon after finishing the renovations we had a private offer which was too good to refuse and moved back to rented (again, no pets).

We're moving into our own home again soon and had agreed to get rabbits (smaller garden not suited to chickens) but now I'm pg I keep hearing that the last thing I'll want is a pet when the baby arrives!

We've considered other low maintenance (i.e. not cleaning out every weekend, having to bring them in from outdoors/spend lots of time outside) pets but cats are out as I'm allergic, DH hates small animals (hamsters etc) and we've both got reservations about mixing a dog with a new baby.

AIBU to feel a bit frustrated and to wonder if it will ever happen??? It feels like an eternal carrot! I come from a very pet friendly family and am probably feeling this a bit more at the moment what with nesting...

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snowglobemouse · 06/05/2015 01:02

sorry just read properly and assume you never got the chickens in the first place

What about rats?

Saltedpeanuts · 06/05/2015 08:21

How allergic to cats are you? I'm allergic, but am fine with one, short-haired, female cat (males are more of a problem apparently). Cats are the perfect low maintenance pet. But even then, I would wait until the baby is older.

Morelikeguidelines · 06/05/2015 08:25

I did get guinea pigs while pregnant with dc2. Found that I managed fine. Dh didn't want them so I have been doing all the cleaning out etc and it wasn't a problem (to be fair dm and dfil have done it occasionally).

ChazsBrilliantAttitude · 06/05/2015 09:46

We have guinea pigs and they are pretty low maintenance as pets go. However, I had an c-section with DS1 and I would have struggled to manage guinea pigs care for the first few weeks. I wouldn't have felt happy about a pet not been as well cared for as it should be but we would have struggled to do it, which isn't fair on the pet.

Sootgremlin · 06/05/2015 10:02

Sometimes we get ready to go up to bed and remember there's washing in the machine to hang out, I feel like if we had to check animals too we'd never sit down!

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