DP and I have been together for 18 months. We live together and have a baby on the way.
He has a child from a previous relationship. He left his ex as she had anger and violence issues. DP and I got together not long after his previous relationship broke down.
For the first 6 months of our relationship she sent him sexual messages, abusive messages, generally unpleasant messages and then moved away with his child.
She has recently returned and yesterday sent him a barrage of messages, firstly saying how sad he had looked the other day, then calling him a fucking bastard after looking at his facebook page and seeing pictures of us.
This really upset me, I have had to bite my tongue up until now but at this point in our lives I feel it needs to stop.
I sent her a message politely asking her not to be abusive to my partner. I recieved a barrage of abuse from her and was told that I had no right to contact her and how dare I.
DP has now mollified her and apologised on my behalf as he is worried she won't let him see his child.
Was I unreasonable?