I often worry that I am being goaded by my MIL, she says things that I often think are a bit off, but don't know for sure. Today, she asked how long me and DH have been married for, so I told her. She asked me if it had felt like a long time (it's over a decade). I said in some ways yes, in someways no. I can remember it like yesterday, and it doesn't feel like over a decade but we have fit a lot in to that time, so it does feel like a long time in that respect.
Then she said 'me and xh commented that we had made it far longer than most when we reached x point, but then of course we divorced the next year. I suppose qutite a few people probably though you and DH wouldn't make it that far. That it would all be over in a year or two.'.
Did they really?! I was busy trying to feed DS and have had a shitty day, so said nothing but now I think back over lots and lots of other examples and I think she is trying to get under my skin. Is she, or am I an oversensitive tit?