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Marmaladedandelions · 27/04/2015 16:09

How you could afford to buy a house?

This is a genuine question: I have noticed a lot of people talking about how they can't afford to buy. I must admit that most people around my age (33) own.

We originally had a mortgage with money my dad gave us. Things have changed now due to inheritances but that was how we bought our first place, in 2005.

How about you? :)

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JemFinch · 27/04/2015 16:39

We had an inheritance, otherwise we would still be saving.

HoppityVoosh · 27/04/2015 16:40

I'm in my early 20's and DH is 5 years older. We bought in 2012 with a 10% deposit. I lived with my parents with my toddler son and he lived in a flatshare. I worked part time but was able to save the deposit, I guess my income provided the deposit and his provides the mortgage. No inheritance or help although my parents did give us a cash gift as we were moving in, didn't know they were going to do that though. I think we're rare though, not really sure why because we both have pretty crap wages.

EuphemiaCoxton · 27/04/2015 16:41

Mid 20s with inheritance.
We've been very fortunate.

GnocchiGnocchiWhosThere · 27/04/2015 16:42

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mooboos · 27/04/2015 16:44

Bought our house in 2012 when I was 25 and DH was 24 by saving up 20k for legal fees and then getting a 100% mortgage. My brother and his wife and doing the same next month and they are 26 so it is doable!

furryleopard · 27/04/2015 16:45

We were trapped renting, our rent was considerably more than our mortgage is now. My mum gave me our deposit in lieu of inheritance and we bought our tiny 2 bed terraced house. We are up north though and our house was less than £90k We are now looking to move in the next few years to have more outside space for our DD having got our foot on the ladder.

cowmop · 27/04/2015 16:50

Bought our first house age 18, dh is 5 years older. It was at the time when you could get a 3 bed semi round here for £50k. We did this with a £10000 deposit which we'd saved and always made over payments on the mortgage. Three years later we sold for £115k and bought for £135k. Three years after that we moved to our current home. It was a total wreck, we paid £185k and spent £60k on it and another £15k for some land at the back. When it was finished we had it valued at £325k so hopefully we're moving in the right direction, but to be honest this is our dream home at the moment so value doesn't really matter.

Squitten · 27/04/2015 16:50

I'm 31. DH is 38.

We bought our house 6yrs ago. DH is a business owner so he earns very well but we received a substantial sum from FIL so that we could increase our deposit and get a more affordable mortgage rate

cowmop · 27/04/2015 16:50

Oh and I'm 33

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browneyedgirl86 · 27/04/2015 16:52

I'm 29, DP is 30 and we have just bought our first house. It's a combination of saving, inheritance and DPs parents paying the deposit that's helped.

EvilTendency1 · 27/04/2015 16:54

I'm 34 and have just last month paid off the mortgage. We live in the SE and have been able to do it by overpaying £1500 each month on top of the interest as we initially took out an interest only mortgage.

No inheritance or help from parents I'm afraid, but I hope to re mortgage in a year or so or buy a flat/small terraced for dc as a means of investment to be sold later that can be used as a deposit for them.

lolbeansansalad · 27/04/2015 16:59

I'm 31, bought our first house 9 years ago, 110% mortgage from Northern Rock, house was a 2 up 2 down for £130K, sold it 6 years later for £160K and used the profit for deposit on current house which was £250K

DisappointedOne · 27/04/2015 17:03

How did you manage the deposit out of interest disappointed - did you save up?

I worked from my 15th birthday (about 25 hours a week term time, 45-60 during school holidays) and saved as much as I could. Bought a car at 17 and moved out. Stayed at school, paid rent, saved as hard as I could. Earned between £2.50 and £3 per hour. Hard work but it paid off.

SusannahD · 27/04/2015 17:05

I bought in 2001 before the boom. I was 21 but was cheaper than renting.

DisappointedOne · 27/04/2015 17:05

Ps - current mortgage is fully offset so we pay no interest on it.

Rosieliveson · 27/04/2015 17:06

DP and I are both 33. We saved whilst renting. We own our home bought for 285k with 25% deposit. It wasn't easy!

slithytove · 27/04/2015 17:07

Bought in the NW at 25 with DH.

Borrowed the deposit from parents.

Got lucky with other costs - work covered them all due to relocation.

House value has increased by 10% so can pay parents back on next remortgage.

Hottypotty · 27/04/2015 17:08

I'm 33. Bought a house with my now dh at age 22 in a cheap area for 64k. 95% mortgage.
Have moved twice since then.

KitCat26 · 27/04/2015 17:09

I bought with my ex fiance aged 21.

It was very, very hard saving. 50% of my tiny full time salary (9k for 3 years) went into savings and I lived with my parents. I paid 'keep' but it was much cheaper than renting. He was a couple of years older and had inherited a couple of thousand from a grandparent. We bought in 2003 a nice 1 bed flat for £139k. I think the (30 year) mortgage was £125k.

Naturally we split up the following year and lost a couple of grand each in fees Hmm. But it was good to learn to be so disciplined about saving money so early.

Chocolatecakefan · 27/04/2015 17:09

I'm 30 and bought a 3-bed semi for £155k a week before my 24th birthday. Hubby didn't go to uni, he started working FT at 18 and aside from his board/lodgings and drinking money he didn't spend anything so was able to put a 30k deposit towards our house.

I appreciate we are incredibly fortunate not to have needed any help from family and in hindsight I have no idea how he managed to do it!

HelenF350 · 27/04/2015 17:13

I am 35. I bought in 2004 by working 3 jobs and saving a deposit.

whatsthatcomingoverthehill · 27/04/2015 17:14

I'm 33 and bought 8 years ago with help from parents towards deposit. Would have bought still, just would have been a cheaper house/not as nice an area.

NickyEds · 27/04/2015 17:19

How you could afford to buy a house?

With a few tiny exceptions I think you have an answer op! Bank of Mum and Dad, inheritance or build a time machine and buy 15 years ago when prices were reasonable!

slightlyconfused85 · 27/04/2015 17:19

We bought a house when I was 27 and dh 33. We both had reasonable professional salaries to secure it, but we were lucky to have a large deposit from when dh spent a tax-free all expenses paid year working abroad and saved 30 thousand plus 10 thousand pound grandparent gift.

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