To ask if you still have adventurous sex with your dh?

[lilyinapot]

I fantasize about things being a bit more raucous and spontaneous but invariably we generally end up in bed when we are a bit tired? If you are adventurous still how do you manage it with dcs and all that?

Ooooh it's shag night

We live in a one bed flat so when baby is asleep in bedroom we take our duvet to the rug in the living room! Adventure wise.. We talk filthy and sometimes do bum sex but it's all very hushed voices I bet it's difficult with older kids around.

The average married couple has sex three times a week

I have an attic bedroom and building regs mean it's fire sound proof.
We go through phases to be fair dependent on tiredness or health.
We have been together only 8 yrs tho and he is younger and rather gorgeous so still pretty good here

What? With teens around? Sadly they never both seem to be out at the same time.

Sorry three times a MONTH that should be!!!!

Haha poptart I was imagining some of them must be at it several times a day to get that average.

Us, erm, very nice but not that frequent due to teens staying up too late

Yes I was thinking three times a week was a bit ambitious! More around once a week here!

YANBU

Nope, non-sleeping 9 month old in our room and 13 year old Ds in the next room have put an end to our sex life. Ds tends to go to bed at the same time as me (10pm) and as the walls are paper thin he would hear me and dh and it puts me off. Plus, no doubt if we were to manage it dd would wake up and stop us anyway.

You need to go on a dirty weekend holiday without the kids. Or do it at home without making a sound.

Yes. Together 25 years and have had ups and downs but at the moment... Awesome . Kids are pre/early teens.

Buy the game Nooki. My sister bought it for me years ago...

Yes, we have an open marriage and are swingers so loads.

No, we don't bother anymore adventurous or otherwise! Too tired and cba

Hell yeah......well, when teenage children allow( once in a blue moon!)

We have had to get clever. Our garage is lockable from the house so has become 'our room'. It's far enough away from the kids rooms and just a little bit naughty!!!!!

Looking forward to just the two of us going to a wedding in 3 weeks

If you are looking forward to when they are grown up and left, think again
They have a habit of turning up unannounced with their gf, just out for a drive and thought they'd pop in. Yes, i mean you, last night ds1

Oh yes, I remember a thread where the DIL surprised the OP and DH one lunchtime

nothing is more overrated than a hard bad shag. nothing is more underrated than a good hard poo

I was hoping for some tonight but I have terrible wind.
Where's the glamour gone? I think it wanes the more dc's you have

We have teenage kids, have tried early weekend mornings but my other half can be noisy, plus he works Friday and Saturday nights, haven't had sex in months!