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to want to punch my brother in the face?!

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JacksWastedLife · 23/04/2015 17:34

I obviously wouldn't. But I bloody well want to!

My son is 3 and had tantrums like any 3 year old and we deal with them, we speak about them and find a way to overcome them and then when he's ready, have a cuddle. Today my son asked my brother, who is 30, not to move his trains he's put in a big line on his track. A minute later my brother took the trains apart and put them in different places all along the track. My son was devastated and started crying and my brother said he's a horrible little boy and it's obviousky not an age thing.

Like seriously what the fuck. I'm sure all 3 year olds get upset and have a cry when something upsets them? Please tell me I'm not wrong in thinking it's an age thing! But to say he's a horrible little boy!

He has no patience whatsoever, I'm still seething.

And I spoke to my son about what he should've said instead of shouting (please move them back etc) and my son apologised. But then he went onto Facebook slagging off the matter Angry

I just want to vent and can't do it anywhere else! It isn't even the first time. He told me he thinks his tantrums will mean he will become a murderer, what the fuck

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JacksWastedLife · 23/04/2015 17:52

kinky it was just like a "ffs really??" type comment seconds after I defended my sons actions in conversation. He wouldn't dare explain the situation as he's clearly in the wrong to say those things he did.

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DixieNormas · 23/04/2015 17:54

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JacksWastedLife · 23/04/2015 17:54

He's a "mature student" in uni and couldn't afford to live alone after his business stopped getting business (he was self employed) so moved back in with them last year. He's great most of the time but then others he's so snide it's unreal.

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JacksWastedLife · 23/04/2015 17:55

Tinkly when/if he ever has children he will see for himself. Self righteous arsehole Confused

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Bogeyface · 23/04/2015 17:58

"Oh fuck off you childish wanker! You deliberately upset a 3 year old child, if tantrums make a child into a murderer then how many did you have to turn you into a Psychopath?!"

cleanmyhouse · 23/04/2015 18:05

punch him.

The Send your son up into his room to rearrange his stuff then post on facebook about it when he throws a strop.

Cabawill · 23/04/2015 18:12

My brother is like this too. He's calls my AS Bobby Beale (to me not to him) because he has tantrums like any normal child of his age.

He doesn't have kids and has no patience or understanding and does things I'm sure most normal adults would know not to to around children generally winding them up.

JacksWastedLife · 23/04/2015 18:27

Sorry to hear your brother does the same Cabawill Flowers

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viva100 · 23/04/2015 18:27

Punch him. He sounds like was deliberately trying to upset your DS. What kind of a person does that?

catgirl1976 · 23/04/2015 18:29

Punch away

Your brother sounds awful

MagicMojito · 23/04/2015 19:28

Punch him. Punch him hard.

He sounds like a stroppy man child and your DS sounds like a normal 3year old. What a dick.

ChiwetelFan · 23/04/2015 19:37

I'm with MrsK, pity him (30 yr old living with Mummy & Daddy. . . ), then punch him. .

Arsehole

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