Have an 8mo (and older DC) and it's been such a tricky road. I never never never sleep.
I can count the amount of times we've had sex since she was born on two hands and maybe a foot.
It's not that I don't want to, I do and I think about it a lot. But I honest to God have no time. I go to bed shortly after DC do (when finished cleaning up etc)!as I know I'll be up five or six times in the night (something I'm trying to sort so please don't tell me to sort that out!). Once or twice a week I'll stay up reading for twenty minutes/get to stay in bed for twenty minutes in morning reading. This is seriously the only time I get to myself ever and in this time I'd rather read than have sex. Is that a problem? Should I be chomping at the bit to do it using my only forty minutes a week? Or is that pretty normal?
DH is very helpful around the house and with DC etc but has a very busy and stressful job. I feel very guilty that we aren't having sex often.