That's it in a nutshell! I'm just about to start a new (fairly senior) role and I've just found out I'm pregnant with third baby. Absolutely wasn't planned and now I have no idea what to do. I feel so guilty joining the new company when I'll only be there for six months before going on mat leave, so much so that I almost feel like saying I can't now accept the role but then that leaves us stuffed financially. DH thinks I should tell th on day one but a friend thinks I should wait until after my 12 week scan in case something goes wrong with the pregnancy. I just feel so guilty as it's a fairly small company and I'm worried they're going to hate me when they find out. I have every intention of returning to the job after mat leave, which DH fully supports and my other two DCs are at school. Argh advice please!!! Thanks.