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to be totally shocked by this and if not how do I complain?

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TooTiredToThinkOfAUsername · 14/04/2015 06:20

DD (6 mths) has been poorly with an ear infection. 5 days ago I took.her to docs because she was having a lot of discharge from her ear. He said she had a perforated ear drum. He took a swab. She was then really quite poorly and I took her back to the docs yesterday. Swab results in. He prescribed gentamicin.

I didn't read the prescription til I got home but then thought I didn't want to give it to her...

Three years ago a colleague happened to tell me that just after her first son was born a pediatrician at the hospital gave him gentamicin without asking her. He is now deaf. She told me this had been caused by the gentamicin and there is a campaign or group of people similarly affected. Just absolutely awful. When I read the prescription when I got home I saw that it was for gentamicin. Oh I thought. That was what was used on X's son. I did a quick check on the internet and the first page of results suggested that yes gentamicin caused hearing loss! But I thought maybe it's like the mmr scare and not actually true. After all a Dr prescribed this! So I got my sister, bil and my Dad (all science phds and bil's sis also gp so they're all super at researching stuff for me!) on the case.

They found that: In general gentimicin can cause hearing loss but not always. In the case when there is a perforated ear drum it will always cause hearing loss as it will destroy the inner ear!!!!! DD has a perforated ear drum and the Dr knew this because he told me in the first place and her ear was still being puss-y. I am absolutely shocked. If a series of chance events and my memory hadn't all come together I would have used the ear drops and would have destroyed her hearing. I'm both quite upset and also so incredibly relieved.

Aibu to feel this way?

If not how do I complain to the docs? I don't want anyone else to experience / risk this!

OP posts:
NeedABumChange · 14/04/2015 15:23

I am partially dead due to gentamicin. It saved my life so I can't really complain but some very common drugs can also effect hearing. Some people have hearing loss from ibuprofen. I suggest you stop all forms of medication if you never want any side effects.

MyFriendsCallMeOh · 14/04/2015 15:44

What would your bil's sister prescribe instead?

Melawen · 14/04/2015 17:56

needabumchange love your typo!! I nearly referred to myself as dead not deaf once!

straighttalker · 14/04/2015 18:16

Hearing loss with gentamicin restricted to the intravenous form.

Still very rare and associated with dose/speed of administration, etc.

You're completely within your rights to question the treatment you've been given, but I would put a little more store in your GP's knowledge as opposed to your relative with a pHD and the internet.

TooTiredToThinkOfAUsername · 14/04/2015 18:20

Have heard back from gp... who has been in touch with ent dept.

He agreed there is a risk although he said it wouldn't definitely cause hearing loss.

There is another antibx they can use which I forget the name of but it began with an s and is actually eye drops.

This isn't actually licensed for use in children under 1 year old.

So either way I've got a risk / choice.

He did say that the best option might be to let it get better on its own. Especially as she is showing signs of improvement. He said I would not be risking her hearing by letting this get better on its own.

So really I think that's the route I'll follow.

In conclusion it looks as if there is a genuine risk with gentamicin but it's not as definite as I first thought. I haven't complained at all, merely raised the question and had a conversation about it.

I'm happy that I've raised the issue and I'm happy to let this get better on its own. Thanks for all your thoughts and replies!

OP posts:
Justusemyname · 14/04/2015 18:26

If it helps my son had a perforated ear drum, we never knew so he had no treatment and it healed on its own. He did have compromised hearing at birth but now it is relatively okay, nothing to do with the perforated ear drum.

TheFirstOfHerName · 14/04/2015 19:32

Well done for handling it so well. I'm glad you were able to get some answers about the possible risks of each option.

maddening · 14/04/2015 21:25

One of her relatives is a gp straightalker

Nicola19 · 14/04/2015 21:36

I agree with OP when she says she is surprised some posters are saying trust in the doctor's choice. I am a doctor and I definitely welcome these sort of comments, we are not all knowing higher beings!

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