Yes, you can downsize when your children leave home, but people shouldn't feel they have to do that to avoid paying tax when they die.
People shouldn't have to do a lot of things - children shouldn't have to care for their parents, schools should have resources to educate children with SN. Families with children with disabilities shouldn't be forced in to poverty. Yet these are all things that we have been told can't be helped because times are tough.
Yet apparently, an additional £175K 'family home allowance' is necessary, not just to benefit people who only have a £325k threshold, but also an additional £350K for people who already benefit from a £650K threshold. The million pound house could already be the 'downsized' property, the adult children having been bought houses years ago, yet apparently the “most basic, human and natural instinct” of parents to provide their children with million pound houses, if not food, must be protected.
I have no idea whether this allowance can be applied if you are the 50 year old disabled sister of somebody with a £400K maisonette.
For full disclosure, my parents do live in a very expensive part of the south east and I would benefit from an increase in the IHT threshold. Doesn't mean to say I can't see that the 'family home allowance' makes no sense what so ever and is a ridiculous attempt to buy my vote.
You know what would help my children to buy a house? A sensible property market - as far as I can 'the family home allowance' would only make things worse.