to find this behaviour odd?

[AureliaAubrey]

So I met a friends friend for the first time yesterday and I just felt the question she asked me were odd.

She straight away asked me if I wanted children. I said I did but not right now as I'm probably too selfish and she pulled this face

She then started telling me about her plan of what age she will get married and what age she will have children. Fair enough but I personally would never make a plan like that because I just feel its out of my control and if it didn't happen I could feel like a failure.

Anyway, she was originally suppose to come with us to go to a house party and kept saying that now she didn't want to come (kept saying it repeatedly). I said trying to encourage her as she didn't know anyone that she had me and other friend and it wouldn't be any fun without her coming.

She replied - I really couldn't give a fuck! ... really aggressively.

My reaction was

She then started saying she was buying our friend a vibrator as a birthday present because she didn't have one and that everyone has a goodie drawer and that I must have one .... now I'm not a prude and I don't get embarrassed talking about sex but I also don't want to talk about what sex toys I do or don't have with a stranger.

She sounds a bit erm odd, I would stay well clear.

She sounds a bit disconnected

I wouldn't be suprised if she has some form of diagnosis not sure what, just think it would explain why she was behaving oddly

Given the lack of inhibitions my first thought was that she'd been on the booze or the white powder.

I'd say she's a fruit loop.

I think I would have found it hard to keep a straight face when she talked about giving the vibrator birthday pressie. I might have asked her how on earth she actually knew that birthday friend didn't have one.

I would have sat there trying to go "Buzzzzzzzzzzz" without moving my lips until she cottoned on that I was using my sex toys as she spoke.

Reminds me of many an occasion meeting a friend's friend. She sounds delightful

How old is she?!

If she was drunk, and remembers saying these things, she's probably mortified by what she said, so I wouldn't write her off yet. Done it myself, made cringe worthy comments while pissed

If she was sober though...

Did you ask your friend if this is normal behaviour for this woman? Very odd

Yes I agree, she was under the influence of something or has some kind of mental problem.

Yanbu...it is odd behaviour. Could be a number of reasons. What does the friend who introduced you say? Is she always like this? Was she shocked? If she doesn't normally act like this, I would say she had been drinking or taken something. If not she might have a diagnosis or just be a bit odd.