Dc was born 13 weeks ago. Dh works long hours in a high stress job. Hes amazing with dc when hes home. But doesn't see dc when she's cranky/in pain (teething) generally being a 13 week old baby. He gets happy, smiley, clean, fed dc when he gets home from work. When hes off (just at weekends) hes busy doing stuff around the house or we'll be at dm house and he'll be doing something with my db ect. He doesn't really see the hard part. But he really is great with playing with/entertaining dc.
AIBU to be sat in the bath, listening to dc cry (though not full on wailing) and dh try to soothe her to make sure he actually can? I know she's just woke up from a nap and will be cranky, but not hungry. Should i gp down and help? Or let him figure it out on his own?