So we are having a house warming on the weekend and I've been prepping the new house all week. I wanted to do a little bit of baking to show I've made an effort cos the ILs are coming.
So I get a message from DH telling me he'll be home at seven thirty, later than expected. No probs, I have an online shop due at eight, I can make tea and then bake.
But the shopping turns up early and DH rocks up late. I'm itching to bake and tea will take ten mins to cook.
So he finds me knee deep in chocolate and no dinner on the table. I ask him to cook his own dinner whilst I bake. I'm not eating cos I've done a lot of damage to the cake mix already.
He goes nuts, yelling about how I should have warned him so he could make other plans. This is coming from a man who never responds to any electronic communication from me.
Anyhow, scream shout yell, I'm looking for a fight apparently. Of course I'm pointing out that whilst he's yelling he could be cooking.
I always cook, more than 99.9% of the time. If I insist he does saturday nights will he stop behaving like an entitled knob? Or by doing all the cooking did I get what I deserve?