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BF has gone off rails, what to do?

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betseyfly · 07/04/2015 10:20

Can someone offer a bit of advice? At wits end with BF who's met a bloke she completely adores. They've been together for over a month and they're mad about each other. She's spoken of little else but him since they met. I'm so happy for her, she's been through a lot....long story.....

Now the bad part - he told me last week she was round his place and saw pictures of his EX and she looks just like her. Hair, complexion, even this EX's taste in clothes echoes her own. She's devastated and has spent the Easter weekend on a kind of tearful bender.

He came to my place yesterday, as she's stopped answering his calls. I told him her 'problem' and he just can't believe it, he's madly in love with BF, she's nothing like his EX and it's just a coincidence etc. He's been round her flat, ringing her buzzer and had the neighbours call the Police etc for disturbance. She's stopped answering my calls now, I'm really worried for her, as is this bloke. I think she's gone a bit bonkers, WTF do I do? I called her at work and they keep telling me she's in a meeting and now she's out the office...

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lottiegarbanzo · 07/04/2015 13:54

Well I hope she tries to address the fact that she does react in a disproportionate way to small things, before she messes up her next relationship too.

What does she think about her neighbours having been so concerned at the bloke's behaviour that they called the police? Any sense of a lucky escape there?

Stinkylinky · 07/04/2015 14:07

Sounds like your friend overreacted... Massively.

You and her BF should've left her to it, she's probably feeling very sheepish now because of all the fuss.

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