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To think my sister is trying to stir up trouble

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saltnpepa · 06/04/2015 20:21

There was a wedding of a close family member to which we were not invited. My sister knew I was upset about this because I told her, I also told her I didn't want to know lots of details about it or see other peoples photos because it was too upsetting. A few days later she changed her profile picture to her and all my family at this wedding which I found difficult to see but it is her business. Then she asked me why I hadn't 'liked' her picture knowing that would mean the bride would see i had 'liked' it. I said I didn't want to do that and get involved and now she is in a strop with me because I didn't 'like' her picture. I think it's obvious I wouldn't want to and so far I have adopted a no comment stance about the whole thing and prefer to keep it that way. AIBU to think she's shit stirring a bit?

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MyNameIsSuz · 06/04/2015 20:25

She's being a total dick! Really rubbing it in and it sounds like trying to make things awkward between you and the bride. Is she always like this?

HazleNutt · 06/04/2015 20:26

strop because you didn't like a photo? Is she by any chance about 13?

EveBoswell · 06/04/2015 20:26

Perhaps the bride would have seen your 'like' and realised that you had not been present at the wedding?

Cantbelievethisishappening · 06/04/2015 20:26

Does she have any particular reason to shit stir? Why were you not invited to the wedding?

StillStayingClassySanDiego · 06/04/2015 20:26

Yes she's stirring, do you usually get on with her, why would she want to cause you further upset?

PHANTOMnamechanger · 06/04/2015 20:31

is your sis always so nasty?
do your family SUPPORT the bride in excluding you from the wedding? if so, why?

PtolemysNeedle · 06/04/2015 20:33

Anyone who even considers getting pissed off because someone didnt like their picture on Facebook is unreasonable. The wedding is almost a red herring, your sister is a shit stirring drama queen. Something must be missing from her life.

slimyhappypeople · 06/04/2015 20:33

"do your family SUPPORT the bride in excluding you from the wedding?"

Or maybe the groom excluded her, or the bride AND groom excluded her. Why pick on the bride alone?

YANBU OP.

swazza · 06/04/2015 20:35

Is your sister 12?

YANBU

EmeraldThief · 06/04/2015 20:35

Out of interest why weren't you invited to the wedding?

Nolim · 06/04/2015 20:36

She is upset because you didit hit loke on her photo. Unless she is 12 she ibu.

zeezeek · 06/04/2015 20:41

Is this for real? Is your sister an actual adult? Because liking posts on Facebook is a very petty and juvenile thing to get pissed off about.

zeezeek · 06/04/2015 20:41

Is this for real? Is your sister an actual adult? Because liking posts on Facebook is a very petty and juvenile thing to get pissed off about.

saltnpepa · 06/04/2015 21:04

Yes she is an adult. There was a long standing dispute between us and the bride and groom, I hoped they might put it to one side for their wedding day but they didn't and I respected that as their choice for their day. I didn't bitch about it to anyone because I wanted to just keep my dignity over it all, it felt very humiliating to be left out. My sister knew how bruised I felt and the bride would have seen the 'like' which I felt would have stepped into her wedding somehow uninvited. I thought it was obvious I wouldn't want to 'like' it. She says she likes my updates which tbh I found a cringy and ridiculous thing for a grown woman to say.

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PurpleSwift · 06/04/2015 21:10

Sounds like your both being silly tbh.

WorraLiberty · 06/04/2015 21:13

Does she in some way side with the bride and groom over the fallout?

There has to be more to it because I refuse to believe any adult would get in a strop about someone not 'liking' their FB pic.

saltnpepa · 06/04/2015 21:25

No she doesn't side with them and my family didn't support the bride and groom in their decision, people were generally a bit shocked. I felt she was rubbing my nose in it.

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DoJo · 06/04/2015 21:29

My sister knew how bruised I felt and the bride would have seen the 'like' which I felt would have stepped into her wedding somehow uninvited.

Do you think your sister in some way thought that by liking her photo it would show you being the 'bigger person'? Or does she have form for starting drama? Because I really cannot imagine an adult getting hey up enough about this kind of thing to even think it, let alone harangue someone over a missing 'like'.

saltnpepa · 06/04/2015 21:34

I know DoJo, she messaged me saying why didn't I like her picture, I thought it was a bit ridiculous to ask anyone that in any circumstance but in this circumstance I would have felt it was obvious. I even wondered if it was a thing, do we all have to like everything now or something Confused

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