Ready to be told AIBU but Bit of back story, DM and I have a rocky relationship, always have always will, we fight like cat and dog and are as different as day and night. She's fought with me already for countless things in my actual pregnancy e.g not picking name she wanted, not making her sister God mother, not buying flashy pram she wanted ect.
DM is obsessed with fashion and looking stylish so this isn't just grandmother being excited in my experience, she had me in frills and jewelry before I could walk. She wants to continue doing this to DS who is 5 months old, which I refuse because he absolutely hates to be annoyed when getting changed, has bad reflux and spews on everything so baby grows are easier and more comfortable.
I won't lie I also hate her style as well, I've told her this myself but she thinks her's is the only style that matters and doesn't listen. It's similar to the children from My Big Fat Gypsy Wedding, over done and over the top. She's said about getting jewelry (ear studs, bracelets ect) for DS, going and getting his ears pierced (even when I said no!), getting him designer labels....all of this I find ridiculous and irritating because all she cares about is appearance and not DS's comfort and taking photos to show off what ages bought. When I tell her no, she takes a fit and fights with me.
Sorry if I insult anyone who likes this! It's just not my cup of tea. Who IBU here? 