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Husband and his social life

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Gummygummygumdrops · 04/04/2015 10:21

I've been with my husband for 8 years, married for 2.

When we first got together he didn't have many friends and I was some what a social butterfly. I would have a very good balance between seeing my friends and seeing him whereas when I was seeing friends he would just spend time alone.

Over the years this has changed, he has formed a solid group of friends, and about 2 years ago they started going the pub every Friday! (Absolutely fine!) whereas my friends are moving away, having babies and we don't see each other as often.

In the past few months he has started seeing his friends more and more and now it seems we can go 2 weeks without spending one evening with each other. On Monday he plays darts with one friend, Tuesday pool with another, Wednesday football, Thursday I might see a friend, Friday is pub night. I just feel like I spend every evening sitting on the sofa alone.

We both work very busy jobs and he works weekends and I work week days.

How would you bring this up?

OP posts:
maras2 · 04/04/2015 23:57

It must cost a fortune to socialise so much.

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