My neighbour is a lone parent with a two year old dd. She is nice enough but is overly keen on my dds aged ten and seven going round to her house. She used to invite them round for half an hour maybe once a week and they enjoyed it...they like babies and toddlers. Lately this has escalated to almost dsily and whilst the younger dd is often quite keen the older one isnt. If she says no thank you the neighbour looks hurt ....she also asks my older dd "whats wrong? You know you can talk to me if you want." qhich bothers me