I'm not going into all the details, however the father of my 3 year old son was my teacher at a worked based learning centre a few years ago, he is being investigated for abuse of position of trust, I have organised and am paying in part for his supervised access with my son, however he has just been caught claiming carers allowance for me even though he wasn't caring for me and now is running out of money fast. He is also claiming a disability, however due to the fact that he is running out of money I think he is going go to court for unsupervised access to my son.
He is unable to chase after my 3 year old son, can hardly get up off of the floor. Up till now I have been reasonable and paid half of the fee for him to see my 3 year old son.
Do you think given the light of the situation the courts would force me to allow unsupervised contact when I do not think it is appropriate, dispite the social services trying to make me feel like I have no choice.
The father is a good talker and can BS everyone into believing what he wants over me, he used to bully me this way.
I will continue to contribute towards supervised and supported access, however due to father being caught committing benefit fraud is running out of money to contribute his side.
Your fews please
The social services are going to attempt through mediation to force me to allow unsupervised access despite the fact that it could put my son at risk. The father is unable to walk with my son holding his hand and is unable to play with him in a soft play area, so why on earth would they think it advisable for the father to have unsupported access to my child.