Our 1 year old cat goes missing at night for the first time ,dd crying and me dp has to rescue's our cat

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From neighbours garden as she could not get out, aibu to never let cat go out in the evening again because I don't think I could handle us being that upset again.

Neighbours cat was run over as well so the distress from dd was pulling at my heart strings feel so sick although cat won't go out and has just come for a cuddle.

Advice please.

I keep mine in at night during the Autumn and Winter, that becomes harder in the Summer when all of our doors/windows stay open longer and the boy loves to be out.

We have a litter tray in the utility, no problems at all.

I love my cat and I do get a bit worried if she hasn't been back for a few hours but I do think that DH was being irresponsible climbing over fences. I would be pissed off if someone climbed over my fence. I'd happily let them into the garden if they knocked and asked.