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To be so upset about leaving?

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HangingBasketCase · 27/03/2015 14:29

I work for an agency going into schools as a supply teaching assistant. When I signed up for the agency I knew that part of the job would mean moving from place to place, it's what I've always done really, but just before Christmas I ended up being placed at a lovely school and what started off as "just two weeks" has turned into nearly four months!

Sadly a fortnight ago I was told that due to funding issues they wouldn't be able to keep me on after Easter, not a problem in essence as I know the agency have lots of work available. But it was such a nice school, warm welcoming and friendly, and from experience I know that sadly they're not all like that.

Well today has been my last day, I had a lovely send off, cards, flowers, chocolate. I was coping quite well until it was time for me to leave and I had to walk past the class I've been working mostly in. The children saw me and knew I was going and tried to stop me leaving, a few hugged me, usually they'd be out playing but had been kept in at lunch because they hadnt finished their work. I managed to compose myself until I got outside to the car, but I've blabbed like a baby all the way home and still am now!

I feel a bit silly really. I've not been there that long, I knew the score and that it was never going to be forever. Iv'e worked with kids before and have always moved on eventually So why the hell am I so bloody upset?

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ChipDip · 27/03/2015 14:36

Yanbu, sounds like a lovely school and lovely kids too. Hopefully in the future you will get to work there again as they know you well. Thanks

HangingBasketCase · 27/03/2015 14:38

I hope so chip the headteacher said she'd be happy to have me back.

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TagineKaput · 27/03/2015 14:38

Don't beat yourself up about getting upset. It sounds like you've got really attached to the kids, which is lovely. I guess if you're usually in schools for shorter periods of time you don't get the chance to do that. Hopefully the next school will be just as lovely as this one.

esiotrot2015 · 27/03/2015 14:47

You sound a fab ta!
Bet the HT rings you soon

HangingBasketCase · 27/03/2015 14:54

I hope so esio. I'm so worried that I've been a bit spoiled and will end up somewhere awful next, Ive always said that I can tell if a school is a nice school after spending about five minutes in one. With this one I knew as soon as I walked through the door.

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DesperatelySeekingSanity · 27/03/2015 14:59

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PumpkinPie2013 · 27/03/2015 15:03

YANBU the school sounds lovely Smile

I'm a teacher but I remember being exactly the same when I left my first placement school - it was a great school and I was gutted to leave.

I hope your next school is just as lovely Smile

HangingBasketCase · 27/03/2015 15:19

I'm not sure desperately. I know they have a pool of regular supply teachers that they use who are not contracted to an agency. If a teacher is off sick of unable to come in for whatever reason they just phone them on their mobiles or at home.

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