Background - me and exP have been split up for a year. In this time he hasnt found a place of his own or got a new job enabling more hours and pay. He is living with his Dad at the minute.
For various reasons, since about October last year exP has been having DS at my house, overnight and on his contact days.
It came to a head last week after coming home on Wednesday night and finding my house a bomb site. He had had DS at my house Mon-Weds (I stayed at my mums). I asked him when he was going to sort his own place out. It blew up into an argument and he stormed out.
He text me saying that he wouldn't be having DS overnight, he wouldn't be picking him up or dropping him off and he wasn't having him his half of the easter holidays either. I gave it time to cool off and text him the next day telling him that he was being out of order. Anyway, he didn't relent and said as I 'wanted to be sole carer it was my job to sort it'.
So I made other arrangements for the four days over easter, he is going to spend them with my sister and her son. They are both excited.
Anyway, he text late Saturday afternoon saying he would have him overnight and Sunday and I stayed out.
Today was his day and when he dropped him off I mentioned that this weekend would be his last day for two weeks. He blew up again and said he doesn't care what arrangements I made, he was having DS regardless.
WIBU to text and say that he made it clear he wasn't having DS over easter therefore I made alternative arrangements and he can piss off will have to deal with it.
Sick of his crap. It's just a way for him to control me or make my life difficult! 