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To wish my friend would just say if I've done something to upset her?

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Primarkable · 24/03/2015 16:10

The last few times I've seen her on the school run, a friend of mine has been very off with me. She has been laughing and smiling and chatting to others and then just said a very cold hello to me.

I sent her a text after she had been like that a couple of times and asked her if I had upset her, and she sent a text back saying no of course not, she just has a lot on her mind at the moment. I sent a text in return saying I was sorry to hear that and was glad I hadn't upset her and that I was here if she needed anything.

Since then she has repeatedly been cold and offhand with me. This morning she just said a cold hello, and then this afternoon she was walking with 3 others, all laughing and chatting, and when she saw me she just looked, didn't even acknowledge me, and walked off.

I have clearly done something to upset her but I have no idea what. I honestly cannot think of a single thing that I could have done wrong. I feel really upset about this. I hate bad feeling and hate falling out with people and now I feel like crap but don't know what I have done :(

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Whereisegg · 25/03/2015 13:01

I've just been wendied, although she will chat if the woman I've been dumped for isn't about.
I chat back but am guarded, I won't mention anything private about myself or family and if she moans about the same drama llama bollox stuff I used to advise on and sympato with, I just ummmm and ahhhh.
Cheery hello's work for me Smile

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