I'm thinking of jacking it all in to be fair.
I have had nothing but abuse from the ex today, I left him for DV reasons and I feel they have been totally unsympathetic to that (i.e. by keep telling me to contact him)
Well I did, and I got a message saying this is why he was violent to me, because I go 'on at him'
Glad he admitted it on text I guess.
Well I know the best option for me is certainly to get him removed as PR, but I suspect we will have to go down the step parent adoption route which will be long and arduous.
Until then, I will leave him to dig his own grave and let his own kids hate him (I don't need to say a word, he manages it all by himself)
The stress of £7 (well £6.72 after fees) a week when 6 months pregnant and with high BP is not worth it.
No surprise I ended up having eclamptic seizures in one pregnancy with him and pre-eclampsia in the others.
Perhaps I should try small claims court for stress....
ha!
Anyway, I am very happy now and am incredibly lucky to have a supportive partner who loves my children and helps with the bills!
So sorry to anyone else out there suffering, it really is a massive fucking headache 