So just wondering as I am so confused now...
DH was helping me with getting my preferred screens on PC (depending on how I log in sometimes it's one version sometimes the next)
After about 10 minutes of huffing and puffings I get "you will just have to get used to the new version sweetheart"
I reply " I don't want to get used to this version I want to know how to get it how I want it"
Apparently I was "aggressive" so he stormed to bed refusing to discuss it as I had "attacked" him,
I queried when he told I had been aggressive in my reply that I didn't want the old version and asked him to tell me what I had said that was offensive (he couldn't /didn't) but apparently my tone was aggressive (it wasn't but I apologised anyway and said sorry if you thought that was what I meant.
But I also said I found his comments were just as aggressive as his "just get used to it sweetheart"
Tried to persue him upstairs to find out what he found so aggressive about that one scentance to be told " I don't do conflict well' and after 15 years you should know this.
Am I seriously misreading things or what (this is not the first time he has stormed off /refused to discuss so not new just this particular instance strikes be as rather odd). Sorry so long!!!